Tom Stipe recently said
"Consumerism, in the context of relationships, is when you are trying to extract happiness from one another. That mentality will kill a marriage, a friendship, a small group, and even a church."
Fulfillment/Happiness found in anything other than God steals our affections from Him. It also creates codependent train wrecks.
So if someone were to analyze your life right now, what or who would they say you are most seeking to find happiness in?